Here is a great post on church commitment from
Church Matters blog.
Short-term vs. Long-term
by Deepak Reju
Have you ever thought how long you will stay committed to your church? American society is very transitory. Often people leave their church to move to another part of the country because they’ve accepted a better paying job. They are moving up on the corporate ladder, buying a bigger house, and enjoying life with more disposable income.
Here’s a novel idea: Why not turn down a job promotion in order to stay committed to your local church? That is, make your church more of a priority than your career.
Matt Schmucker once said to me (and I’m paraphrasing here):
“Maybe a few of us need to be willing to commit our lives to one local church over a lifetime. We need to be willing to sacrifice our lives for the sake of bearing long-term fruit for the kingdom.”
Now you might think I’m just talking about laypeople, but I’m also thinking about pastors here. Researchers say that on average, pastors stay at churches for only 3.5 years. Too many pastors are eager to “move up” to bigger churches with bigger sanctuaries, bigger salaries, more staff, and more ministries.
There is only so much you can do if you stick around for just a few years. In contrast, when you stay in a local church for a lifetime, you can think, plan, and act with a long-term vision. You can build relationships over the long haul. You can commit to transforming one community for a lifetime. A long-term vision with a long-term commitment can make a tremendous difference.
So what say you? Might you consider staying in your church over the long haul?
One caveat: Life is complicated. There are lots of normal transitions in life. For example: a high school student graduates and goes to college; a young girl gets married and moves out of her parents’ home; a seminary student graduates and takes his first pastorate; etc. Yet, with all of these exceptions in mind, I still think my point is valid. In general, people make church secondary in their major life decisions when it should be primary.
(P.S. Matt – you said to quote someone wiser than myself in my first post. How did I do?)